Reference

Genesis 4:1-16
Sibling Rivalry

Sibling Rivalry

In terms of themes, this coming Sunday will center around jealousy as a source of problems for siblings and more generally in the family.

Outline

  1. Some misbehaving brothers
  2. Highlights in the Cain-and-Abel story
    • When it was time for harvest
    • To obey is better than sacrifice
    • This made cain very angry
    • Where is your brother?
  3. The core problem: jealousy
    • The heart of the matter - Jealousy
    • Jealousy in Genesis
      • Isaac and Ishmael can't live in the same house - because of jealousy (Genesis 21)
      • Jacob decives and defrauds Esau, and spends years running away as a result - because of Jealousy (Genesis 25-27)
      • SRachel and Leah complete for Jacob's affection and created a permanently divided family - because of jealousy (Genesis 29-30)
      • Joseph's brothers plot to kill him, then sell him into slavery instead - because of jealousy (Genesis 37)
    • Jealousy - can happen anywhere
    • Jealousy - is a sin
  4. Some practical suggestions
    • Suggestions: watch for symptoms
      • Constant comparison
      • Chronic disappointment
      • Frequent anger
      • Difficulty loving, giving, and caring for someone
    • Suggestions : Things to do
      • Practice thankfulness
      • Pray for that person or group
      • Build a gifts-in-the-body perspective
      • Cultivate true worship